Reflections on the Fence and some Pictures of the Progress

The fence project began Wednesday afternoon. I called the fence company we paid from the interest free loan we gave the government last year. They told us they would be there Monday. Like this Monday.

This is the section blowing into our neighbor's yard.
The unfinished deck that Micah wants to fall off of when we play outside.

I had a plan for this all along. My plan didn't include the weekend being that of Easter or children with the flu. Taking down the fence ourselves has saved us $300 minus the cost of the tetanus shot I'm going to have to get. Joel and I have done the entire thing alone. This brings me to my next thought. Dr. Phil said (more than) once, "Good fences make good neighbors." Without a fence around our yard, we've been exposed to the neighborhood in front of, and behind us. We like the people who live on our street. We've made a point to meet them and I try to be in the front yard when I see others outside in their yards. Some of the neighborhood friends who have stopped by to see me, or Joel and me, work have said things like the following:

"You're tearing your fence down? Are you moving out or something?" (this was by a 4-year-old girl).
"You young kids are doing a great job. I'm going to go drink a cup of coffee now." (this was by a neighbor who shares the largest side of the fence. We had strongly hoped she would add, "And then I'll be out to help you...")
"Is that your park?" (by the 4-year-old girl's 5-year-old sister)

It's been nice to have people come and go as we work. Silas has asked me no fewer than 25 times "What are you doing". The first 24 times I answered, "I'm tearing down the old fence so we can build a new one. This one is broken." The 25th time, I realized he was ready for a more complex answer and so I told him the cold, hard truth. This answer, especially in light of our neighbors' comings and goings into our yard, saddened me. "Silas, in our culture, we go to great lengths to define our personal space and property. Many people build fences to keep people out of their yards." And out of their lives.

The boards with nails at the bottom of the gate to keep lewis from crawling underneath when we play in the front yard.

I should note this is NOT why we are building our fence. Ours is to keep people in. And so we don't have to pick up all of our outside toys every time we have to go in for orange juice or emergency nap times. Before, I thought this was a very important aspect of rebuilding a privacy fence, as opposed to a chain link fence, like most folks have in our neighborhood. But after our fence came down and we saw how everyone else really lives in their backyards, I don't feel the same way at all.
A big ole pile of pickets. This will all be firewood as soon as we can turn the chain saw on.
Ivy we pulled off the fence. And this isn't all off it.