A Rainy Day Summary

AM: Micah had his 15-month well-baby check-up (at 19 months...oops.) He has gained a little over 2 lbs and now weighs in at 22 lbs, placing him in the 5th percentile. No worries though- his head continues to be larger than at least 85 out of 100 babies his age. Good for him because it's really cute.

PM: took naps, watched the refrigerator repair man, boys knocked each other over several times with handfuls of walmart bags. Even though it had been raining all day (and was still raining) I decided we should go for a walk. Another mom and her boys on our street joined us with umbrellas for some fresh air. Everyone got muddy and wet but we successfully accomplished much running and much throwing of rocks and hickory nuts into the creek for about an hour and a half.


For supper, I cooked a roast with potatoes and carrots. The following are the boys responses to this meal.
"Mmmm...I like the ketchup, mom."  He definitely at all the ketchup (with his carrot, I guess). Add that to the 1/4 pbj sandwich he had for lunch and that's the grand tally of Silas' food intake for the day.
"It's a hot dog!" This particular roast recipe didn't call for hot dogs. I think Micah must have been referring to the carrots. He ate all the food on his plate, and most of Silas'.

Two Recipes in One Long Day

I'm inspired by reading recipes on other friends' blogs. I baked today so I thought I would post the details.

Normally meat loaf takes me about 10-15 minutes to prepare because of chopping up onions. My eyes start watering the second I remove the peel and to be sure we can all digest the onion (Silas and Micah may take after me when it comes to eating onions) I have to really dice it finely. Chocolate chip cookies take me less than 5 minutes to whip up if I put the brown sugar in the same place in the pantry every time. Today it was, in fact, where it was supposed to be. But both recipes took nearly an hour to complete, and that wasn't including baking time.

9:45am- put Micah down for nap/start getting out ingredients for meatloaf
9:50- drain can of tomatoes/help Joel find Silas' shorts to go to the hardware store
9:55- start to peel onion/discuss why Silas is not going with Joel to the hardware store (he wouldn't put his shorts on)
9:56- answer Silas' question: "What are you making, mom?" with "I'm making meatloaf for lunch"
9:57- answer Silas' question: "What are you making, mom?" with "I'm making meatloaf for lunch"
9:58- answer Silas' question: "What are you making, mom?" with "I'm making meatloaf for lunch"
9:59- answer Silas' question: "What are you making, mom?" with "I'm making meatloaf for lunch. Please don't ask me anymore."
10:05- finish dicing onion/tell Silas not to throw onion peel on the floor
10:06- answer phone. It's Joel who can't find what he's looking for at the store
10:10-dump in raisins, spices, eggs, bread crumbs and onion
10:11- bring a crying Micah out of bed to play with Silas
10:13- hollar at Silas to stop pushing Micah
10:14- hollar at Micah to get off of the train tracks Silas is trying to play with
10:15-realize ground beef is still frozen and put in microwave to thaw
10:17- hollar at Silas to not touch/push/hit/hug/kiss/help MIcah anymore
10:18- pick up a crying Micah who has fallen off a step stool and hit the playroom wall
10:25- answer Silas' question: "What are you making, mom?" with "I'm making meatloaf for lunch, remember? You're not supposed to ask me anymore. And please don't hug Micah right now, either."
10:28- mix up meat with bread crumb/tomato/onion mixture
10:30- Joel comes home
10:35- meat loaf goes into the oven.

The chocolate chip cookie attempt was a little more simple. It went like this:
mixed up flour, baking soda, salt with creamed butter/sugar/brown sugar/vanilla/eggs.
Went to get Micah up from his afternoon nap.
Had to give Micah a bath/wash sheets/blankets/clothes because he pooped and then took his diaper off.
Strapped Micah into booster seat/gave both kids a snack so they wouldn't go anywhere.
Mixed in chocolate chips and proceeded to bake.
They were the best chocolate chip cookies I've had in a long time.


I'll start posting pictures again when mom's camera comes back from the shop.

I'll tell you why it's been over a month since I've posted: Micah. 

The child has no fear (except an initial fear of balloons. Even this seems to have passed) and as of yet, no limit to the motor skill development acrobatics he's willing to experiment with. His most common attempt is (I can only assume) to see how far he can lean over to get something off a table or desk while standing in a chair. I've seen him attempt to defy gravity over and over. I used to think that the effects of gravity would soon defeat his will to try things at greater heights than any 18 month old should. And I don't think it isn't that he doesn't understand. Micah just doesn't seem to care how many times he gets hurt. 

For the most part, all Micah's falling and crying has helped Silas to become a more caring and compassionate brother.  Other times it's difficult to determine if Micah got hurt on his own, was hurt by Silas, or if Micah cannot make a board book open to the page he wants. Tonight there was even a combination of two. Micah wanted to show Silas a page with bouncing balls. I know this because he had already shown it to me 90 times, saying "ball" 3 times per showing. When I came to the playroom to find out why there was so much screaming, I saw Micah waving the little book in the air. Silas, also very red-faced, complained "He keeps putting that book in my way." 

I'm not sure why the picture is sideways. I did everything that's worked in the past to rotate it but what you see is what you get tonight.

No Way to Catch Up

Joel's sweatshirt from 6th grade. It's been nice to have him around so much.

It's been very difficult to get anything done in the last 6 weeks. We have a couch in the great room that is piled high with 5 loads of clean laundry, waiting to be folded and put away. When we need to find something to wear, we go to the foot of the mountain and conduct a search for something that matches. It somehow doesn't seem justifiable that I post on our blog while the mountain grows. I have to wonder, too, if that mountain isn't really a volcano that erupts when no one is looking. Sometimes I come downstairs and find that there are clothes on the floor, the table, and the stairs. I know I didn't leave them anywhere but on the couch. 

Despite neglecting other huge household tasks, here's a Fank. Family update:

Joel's had a "normal" schedule this month. He works from 8-5 (most days. Some days it's 8:30-3:30) and has weekends off. This week, he's been especially focused on killing flies. Now that the mice are gone, the flies have come in force. At first we though  maybe we had flies because it takes me about 2 1/2 hours to clean the kitchen after each meal. But now we know it's actually because we have a bajillion flies outside and they like to come in when Silas opens the door to "let Lewis out" or "Let Sabrina in" or "Just let Micah out because he wants to play outside." Joel has also been working very hard at managing a decent fantasy baseball team. I also ought to mention the incredible load of parenting and household management Joel has graciously picked up without being asked. He's wiped noses countless times in the morning and changed many diapers so I wouldn't have to throw up. He continues to put my needs and the boys' needs before his own and I don't think I've ever felt more loved.

Silas  has made the transition to the big bed for the 4th time. He's doing better than he's ever done, despite being sick with a cold, cough and pink eye. Against my better judgement, he especially likes to jump off the bed/couch/hearth/coffee table/deck bench. Most of the time, he clears Micah who watches in quiet wonder. Silas continues to be a good big brother to Micah. He is the first to offer Micah his toys when Micah is crying. Definitely the first to pick up Micah's milk when Micah throws it on the floor time after time after time, saying "Micah, we don't drop milk on the floor!"

We've been spending a lot of time outside recently. Silas and Micah's favorite activity is to play in the sandbox, then sit in the swimming pool, then sit in the sandbox and play some more.

Micah is now 16 months old. He's the same age that Silas was when Micah was born. This seems strange to me because Micah seems so much younger than Silas was at the same age. Micah is loving his new ability to walk fast and climb down from things instead of falling off. While has hasn't fallen down the stairs yet, he has managed to bust his lip and bruise and bloody his nose on separate occasions climbing up the stairs. He now has 7 teeth and is, bless his  heart, about to have 3 new molars at once. Micah has such a lovable and quirky personality. He really wants to please but has his own opinions on how toys should be played with, what food should taste like, and how much sleep he needs. I love how much he wants to be with his brother. The amount of time they spend playing well together versus how much time they spend fighting/hitting/biting/kicking each other makes me really glad we had 2 so close together.

 If you know anyone in the market for a home in LR with an apple tree in the back, you should have them call me. Other important Alice updates: well, there aren't any except that I'm now over 12 weeks along with the new baby and throwing up fewer than 4 times/week. But that isn't really an Alice update, is it? Oh here's one: I made an angel food cake last night and found the game "Tri-Bond" at GoodWill for a dollar.

I'm currently the real estate agent for this lovely 1961 house.

Joel and I had a garage sale last weekend. After we got some doughnuts for breakfast, and Arby's for lunch, we made about $37. But, the best part of the garage sale was getting rid of a huge box of worthless baseball cards, some baby clothes that I didn't feel good about donating, a recliner no one has room for, and some of the leftovers from the big garage sale in Texarkana last weekend. 

Someone bought this Santa teapot for $.25. I think the old saying should go,

 "One man's trash is another man's trash that somebody else wants to take home with him."

I Was Tagged

Erin tagged me.  Here are 7 things you may not know about me.

1) I think Wednesday should be spelled "Wensday." If I'm ever president, I will try to change the spelling for everyone.

2) Apparently, I'm on a shoe-buying schedule. One pair/18 months.

3) I love Miss Vickie's Jalapeno Potato Chips.

4) I was once in a Japanese magazine.

5) My last date was to the Container Store and it was HOT.

6) I'm about to retire from my job as a one-hour-a-week-Spanish teacher for a while to be a 

stay-at-home mom of 3.

7) For my birthday (which is October 7, FYI), I would like the icecream maker attachment that goes with my mixer. Or an immersion blender. You can choose.

I tag Andrea B., Emily P., Amy V., and Melody L. (go on Melody, I dare you.)

Getting Out of the House

I'm really sorry that I have no pictures to post. With as much as I have to say, and without pictures, that probably means few will make it to the end of this post. 

THE CAMPING TRIP

It was the best of times, it was the worst of times. The first night of all four us and Lewis sleeping in a tent together was far worse than I ever imagined. It wasn't because it was too crowded (although it was), it was because the temperature dropped below 39. Silas woke up 3 times, Micah woke up 5 times, and I woke up 2 times on my own to worry about my children being warm enough. We were in our tent from only 9 until 7. You can do the math.

The next night, after consulting a professional fireman, we turned on our space heater. We woke up when Micah crawled out of his peapod at 6am but it was fun to wake up to such a happy baby. Both Silas and Micah loved being outside all weekend.  I was surprised at how much I enjoyed being with old friends. They were more fun than I had remembered. It was also great to share our campsite with the Bradleys, even though they slept in the car the second night. We had some great hot dogs and hamburgers and pudgy pies. And no one threw up, not even once.

THE BIG TRIP TO PHOENIX

Flying with Silas and Micah surprised me. They were exceptionally well-behaved on the airplane. Micah slept on every flight (although he didn't fall asleep until landing in LR on the way back) and Silas tried very hard not to kick the seat in front of him. Joel and I found new and creative ways to haul carseats through terminals and by the time our last flight was over, we were like a well-oiled machine.

Being in Phoenix also surprised me. No- I should say that being in Mountain Standard time surprised me. I didn't know until this trip how dependent I have become on such a rigid nap/bedtime schedule. I'm pretty sure I cried more than the children. I cried the most on the day that Silas woke us all up at 4:30am. I thought it was 6:30 so I let him get up out of bed only to realize an hour later (when I was making sure it was at least 7:30 before I let him out of our room) that I was sorely mistaken. This went on all weekend. Now throw in a myriad of wedding activities and 2 cars for 8 (2 in space in-efficient carseats).  I was very proud of the entire Fank. family. All the adults were long-suffering with the children, but more impressive, was how patient everyone was with each other. The possibilities for strife were endless and honestly, I came pretty close to losing it with the little ones. But Papa, Gamma, and Emily came to the rescue every time. The wedding would have been a disaster without their help. The wedding, by the way, was really lovely, and it was so great to see all the family members, meet Christina and see some of Joel's friends from highschool. Another highlight was going to the Neighborhood Church with Emily. This experience was so unique that I won't write about it now, but it's definitely worth sharing.

I went to the dentist today for the first time in 5 years. Since Joel started medical school, this was the first time we could afford it. I am proud to say, I only have one dead tooth and 4 cavities (VERY VERY SMALL ones). That's only 1 per year. Not too shabby.

Next time, check back to hear about the first ever camping trip with a three-year-old sheltie, a two-year-old boy, and a one-year-old boy. The trip complications started this morning when the campsite called to tell me they were completely closed for the next week. After calling 2 other campgrounds who were completely booked, I finally found one with enough campsites to accommodate all the other friends and their children. 

I really can't wait to write about the experience. The last time I went camping with Andrea...well, I should just let her write about it on her blog. But it included a tornado, 3 wrecked canoes and an abandoned tent.

Furious George

Tonight Silas read us this story:

"Curious George went down through a hole.  He bit some people.  The lamp wasn't broken.  He talked on the phone.  The End."

This is the cover of the book that Silas read.

PG-13 for disturbing images

This picture serves as a buffer for the image that follows. It was taken within minutes of the next. I promise that I didn't pull this happy face from the archives.

Micah has Erythema Multiforme (minor- at this point). What you can't tell from this picture is that these lesions are raised and target-like. It doesn't seem to bother him. In fact, he's been happier today than he has been since he first got sick 10 days ago. The only crying today has been from the 3 times he hit his head on the tile floor. I don't think the rash and the falling are related.

And the fence is done!

Reflections on the Fence and some Pictures of the Progress

The fence project began Wednesday afternoon. I called the fence company we paid from the interest free loan we gave the government last year. They told us they would be there Monday. Like this Monday.

This is the section blowing into our neighbor's yard.
The unfinished deck that Micah wants to fall off of when we play outside.

I had a plan for this all along. My plan didn't include the weekend being that of Easter or children with the flu. Taking down the fence ourselves has saved us $300 minus the cost of the tetanus shot I'm going to have to get. Joel and I have done the entire thing alone. This brings me to my next thought. Dr. Phil said (more than) once, "Good fences make good neighbors." Without a fence around our yard, we've been exposed to the neighborhood in front of, and behind us. We like the people who live on our street. We've made a point to meet them and I try to be in the front yard when I see others outside in their yards. Some of the neighborhood friends who have stopped by to see me, or Joel and me, work have said things like the following:

"You're tearing your fence down? Are you moving out or something?" (this was by a 4-year-old girl).
"You young kids are doing a great job. I'm going to go drink a cup of coffee now." (this was by a neighbor who shares the largest side of the fence. We had strongly hoped she would add, "And then I'll be out to help you...")
"Is that your park?" (by the 4-year-old girl's 5-year-old sister)

It's been nice to have people come and go as we work. Silas has asked me no fewer than 25 times "What are you doing". The first 24 times I answered, "I'm tearing down the old fence so we can build a new one. This one is broken." The 25th time, I realized he was ready for a more complex answer and so I told him the cold, hard truth. This answer, especially in light of our neighbors' comings and goings into our yard, saddened me. "Silas, in our culture, we go to great lengths to define our personal space and property. Many people build fences to keep people out of their yards." And out of their lives.

The boards with nails at the bottom of the gate to keep lewis from crawling underneath when we play in the front yard.

I should note this is NOT why we are building our fence. Ours is to keep people in. And so we don't have to pick up all of our outside toys every time we have to go in for orange juice or emergency nap times. Before, I thought this was a very important aspect of rebuilding a privacy fence, as opposed to a chain link fence, like most folks have in our neighborhood. But after our fence came down and we saw how everyone else really lives in their backyards, I don't feel the same way at all.
A big ole pile of pickets. This will all be firewood as soon as we can turn the chain saw on.
Ivy we pulled off the fence. And this isn't all off it.

What Happens when the Fanks AND the Bradleys Visit at the Same Time

I've been meaning to post these pictures for a long time. These were taken over Christmas/THE WEDDING.

The upstairs

the Breakfast table

the Guest Bedroom

The Longest Day of Spring

Time is standing still here.

1) Joel has been working until midnight for the last 4 days.
2) Micah has had a fever since March 14. He hasn't walked or climbed on/fallen off the picnic table since then.
3) On Thursday, March 13, we planted seeds to grow nice things for our back yard. Now, I'm no gardening expert, but I think that seeds are supposed to get at least some sunshine. Am I right? Huh. No sunshine since early on March 14.
4) Supposedly everyone is on Spring Break. I was sure that when everyone had spring break, things would somehow be different at our house. But it must be March 14 and spring break doesn't start for at least 3 more days (10 days for others) because there is no vacationing around here...

Normally, I would be glad for a little consistency. But I don't want Micah to have a fever forever. I actually enjoy it a little bit when he tubles off the picnic table (so long as no crying is involved) It would be nice to eat supper with Joel again. And if our little seeds survived the mini flooding and hail we've had nearly every night since "march 14", I would really like to say I grew something this year. And spring break? No need to say anything more about that.

Yes, today-March 14-has been one very long day. I'm especially thankful for friends and family I've talked to and for my neighbor who has been so helpful with Silas while Micah needs so much attention. And at least Joel working until midnight means he's been home until noon, ensuring some of the most cheerful playtime hours (except for Micah, whose aforementioned state has kept him napping all of Joel's waking hours at home). If we can get out of this glitch in time and get to Wednesday, he'll have another day off and maybe I'll remember to take a picture of something.

Like falling off a blog

If anyone is still out there reading our blog, I'm back. I have to be. There are too many exciting things coming up this spring: a huge fence demolition/resconstruction, a camping trip, a trip out west to Arizona, not to mention all the "normal" things that happen here worth remembering (like what we will do with Joel's TWO DAYS OFF IN A ROW this week! Amazing.).

It didn't make the paper...

...but the big news around here is that Micah is walking! You can also see in the picture that he has 4, count 'em, FOUR teeth in his mouth.

We've been having such a great time around here. Silas and Micah each have different things they love, but still find ways to involve the other in play/fighting over it.

Silas loves to build with blocks. Micah loves to knock them over.
Micah loves to roll the soccer ball. Silas loves to pick it up and throw it down the stairs or onto the stove.
Silas loves to play with cars. Micah loves to put the cars in his mouth.
Micah loves to climb onto the picnic table. Silas loves to sit as close to him as possible, ensuring a quick fall by Micah.



You just never know when the game is going to be taken as an offense. Keeps me on my toes, for sure.

Applesauce Disaster Sauce

We eat applesauce nearly every single morning with zero incidence. Today when we ate breakfast, I gave Micah a big bite of pink strawberry applesauce and he sneezed it all over me. Less than 20 seconds later, Silas dropped his bowl of applesauce face down on the floor.

In other developments, Micah loves to roll the soccer ball around and crawl after it, which is very cute. Silas took a nap at MOPs for the first time AND cooperated at Walmart all in the same day. As I write there are alternating games of 3-man-wrestle (with Joel) and keep-away and screaming in protest over the soccer ball between Silas and Lewis.

Sorry there's no pictures these days.

A Morning So Extraordinary

This was so aweful, I thought I might need to remember some day for reference.

7:30- got out of bed to two crying children.
7:45-changed poopy diaper #1
7:50-Micah threw-up on me
8:15- changed poopy diaper #2
8:30- cleaned up cat vomit on the stairs
9:25-cleaned up sick-doggie poo under the table

Also during this time, I had to enforce two time-outs and administer one spanking.

One Year Old!!!!

This afternoon, I picked Micah up, he grabbed my hair so I couldn't turn away, and he sneezed in my face.
It's been an unforgettable year. I have so much to be thankful for.
Happy Birthday, Micah!

Here's Why You Should Be Glad I'm On Sabbatical

I have a few minutes to type now that the boys are in bed and this is all I can think to write about:

This is the progress of unpacking from the Holiday Journey.

Monday: park the car and drag everything just barely through the door.
Tuesday: take the boys' suitecase up stairs. Take my suitcase to the stairs by the kitchen.
Wednesday: open the boys' suitcase. Get tired of stepping over my suitcase everytime I want to cook or eat.
Thursday: Take my suitcase upstairs and open it. Dump clothes out of all suitcases on the floor.
Friday: put suitcases in closet. Take one laundry basket to the garage.

Goals for Saturday: Wash clothes; put away clean clothes on the floor from the suitcases; put away clean clothes from the washing machine.

I should add that somewhere in all that I took down our Christmas decorations. I swept up all the pine needles and while I was getting a dustpan, Micah crawled through the middle of the dirt pile.

My Apologies

A quick note to say that I'm taking a break from blogging for a while. Micah is crawling and Silas is in the throws of two-year-old-hood. I can't justify spending as much time as I do in front of a computer screen that causes me to face the wall.

But before I say my good-bye for this sabbatical, here's some stats:

Micah is almost 1 and amost 20 lbs!
Abbie's getting married this weekend and Silas will be the ring-bearer.
I got the KitchenAid mixer of my dreams for Christmas so let the baking begin.
Joel is about to be a RESIDENT and not an intern anymore.
I didn't lose any weight for the contest but I didn't really gain any weight this Christmas. Goal accomplished.
Silas and Micah share a room now so we have an extra-free guest bedroom again.

See you later!

-alice

"the Ball"

I promised I would post about the film festival and I know that many of you have been checking multiple times a day to hear the results. Sorry to make you wait so long.

This year's films were fantastic! Here's a list of titles/producers

"So Where Do You Think You Can Dance"- a remake of "So You Think You Can Dance"- by Dad
"the Ball" by me -a remake of a Twighlight Zone Episode titled "the Doll"- by me
"The Prodigal Son" -a retelling of the parable in the Bible- by Joel
"The Argyle Pants" -a retelling of the poem "What Was I Scared Of?" by Dr. Seuss- by Andrea
"The Woods" -a remake of "The Cave" - by Emily
"Kat Kong" -a remake of "King Kong"-by Laura
"Mort and the Sour Scheme"- a retelling of "Mort and the Sour Scheme"- by Katie
"Sleeping Beauty" - a retelling of "Sleeping Beauty- by Sara

There were awards given in many categories, but I'll just list the ones that we the people got to vote on.

The People's Choice Award went to.....Laura!
Best Actor was a tie between Dad in "So Where Do You Think You Can Dance?" and Heath in "The Argyle Pants".
Best Actress went to me for "the Ball"
Best Remake went to me as well.

Tune in a little over a year or so to hear about next year's PFF. The theme?
Christmas Movies...